The Foolproof Way To Get Child Custody (What I DID!)

November 21st, 2009

If you’re reading this , you’re probably in the middle of a huge child custody battle. My heart goes out to you. I know how tough that can be. The product I’m going to tell you about will help you best prepare for that battle and hopefully give you the best chance of winning.

Please note that this is a review of the product which won my child custody battle for me.  To visit the website of the product, click here.

The product, Custody Strategies is very specialized, so much so that it has information relative to whether you are the mother or father of the child. Yes, depending on who you are, there are different strategies. This is something that most people don’t know that the product makes very clear.

The book is written by two people who have over 30 years experience with child custody, Dr. Barry Bricklin and Dr. Gail Elliot.

Dr. Bricklin is a psychologist in private practice. He is an Adjunct Associate Professor at Widener University and has previously served on the faculty of Jefferson University and of Hahnneman University. He has served as a consultant in psychology to the Walter Reed Army Hospital Research Center, to the United States Army, to the New York Academy of Medicine, and to the Columbia Broadcasting System.

Dr. Elliot is Head, Child Development and Family Processes Research, Bricklin Associates, the Vice Chair of the Professional Academy of Custody Evaluators and a psychologist in private practice. She has served as a consultant to public and private schools and coordinated multidisciplinary treatment plans. She was responsible for devising for Bricklin Associates an information-processing oriented educational therapy technique and a comprehensive college entrance service for children with serious motivational problems and low self-esteem problems.

I’m telling you this so that you understand that these people are professionals in this matter and not quacks.

The book has 15 hard hitting chapters in it, starting with the role of bias in these cases. It then goes into the most frequently made errors, 14 key strategies, all outlined in detail, false assumptions, strategies that can be used against you (very important) what your lawyer should do for you, how to get your lawyer to work harder for you, the bribed or manipulated child, physical disability, how to control costs, the best approach to use, costs involved, how to make sure a custody evaluator has the proper expertise to carry out an evaluation, what to do if you believe an evaluation has been biased and a summary.

In short, these two doctors have left nothing out. I think you will find this book to be quite thorough.

And that one book is just a fraction of what you get. I won’t go into the rest of it because there is just too much to go over. Essentially, you get a whole child custody package that will provide you with everything you will need.

At the very least, go to their site and see what they have to offer. After all, the custody of your child is at risk here and you do want to make sure that you’ve done everything possible to give yourself the best chance to win this battle.

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Fighting For Child Custody?

November 16th, 2009

Let me start off by saying that I hate lawyers and I hate legal proceedings. And child custody is at the top of my list of things that I hate the most. As a parent, there is nothing worse than this. But I don’t have to tell you that if you’re reading this article. Right now, you are literally fighting for your life. Well, before you begin that fight, you might want to read the few paragraphs below. It just might mean the difference between winning and losing.

For starters, and I can’t stress this enough, get yourself a good lawyer. Don’t ask him what his fees are or anything like that. Just get the best. Quite honestly, if fighting for custody of your child doesn’t deserve the best then save yourself the trouble and hand the kid over to your ex. I’m serious. Without a great lawyer, you don’t stand a snowball’s chance in hell.

Don’t come off as the bad guy. In other words, yes, you want to point out the weaknesses of your ex when testifying. But you also want to point out what is good about your ex. This is a strategy that usually works very well because you come off as being unbiased in your opinion. Naturally, consult with your attorney on this tactic, but I think he will agree that it can work very well as it will paint you as a fair person.

By the same token, don’t paint yourself as a saint. This isn’t going to wash. You want to be honest about your own weaknesses. If you have some serious ones, such as being an alcoholic, you want to own up to this. If you’re up front about your own problems, but also stress that you’re working on improving, this will go over very well with the judge. We all have our faults. Don’t try to hide yours.

Finally, and this is something that few people do, find out as much as you can about the judge who is going to be presiding over the proceedings. Why do you want to do this? Because every judge is going to have his or her prejudices, as fair as they all try to be…they are still human. Some judges favor men over women and visa versa. If you don’t know your judge, you are at a disadvantage.

One extremely powerful resource which greatly helped me prepare for my own child custody battle can be found at this website. At the very least, read it. It really could mean the difference between winning and losing.

How To Get Custody Of Your Child

November 8th, 2009

Child custody is, without a doubt, one of the most emotionally draining things anybody can go through. Fighting for the right to spend time with your own child is not something I would wish on my worst enemy. Therefore, it is critical that if you find yourself in that situation that you give yourself the best chance of winning this battle. In this article, I’m going to share a few tips that should help.

First off, this is an ugly process. I am not going to say it’s not. But your goal is to win…not come off as a saint. So the first thing you need to do is to show as much documentation as you can of abuse by the other parent, either towards you or towards the child. If this can be verified by visits to the emergency room for bruises or other injuries, do so. If you can show photos of this abuse, even better. Like I said…this is an ugly process.

Conversely, you want to paint yourself in the best possible light. That means many things such as dressing properly for the hearings. Also, you want to get as many character witnesses as you can to testify to your parenting of the child. Anything that you can show to prove that you have always had the child’s best interests in the foremost of your mind is going to help your case.

On the other side of that coin, you want to be able to discredit any witnesses that your ex calls against you. If they drink, if they’re irresponsible towards their own children, are unemployed or whatever…bring out all the dirt that you can to lessen the impact of their testimony.

Make sure you get yourself a lawyer who not only specializes in child custody but one who has a killer won/loss record. You want to be as blunt with your attorney as possible. Ask how many cases he’s had and how many he’s won. Remember, this is YOUR kid you’re fighting for and you don’t want to settle for second best.

I would highly recommend getting your hands on a product which will give you all the tools you need to have at your disposal in order to legally win custody over your child. The product which I used, which literally won my custody for me, can be found here.

Child custody YouTube Video

November 2nd, 2009

Youtube video featuring a review of the product and fantastic information.

New Post About Child Custody

July 18th, 2009

Getting child custody can be hard, especially since your ex is going to paint you in a negative light. It is important to get as many resources and tools as possible in order to give you the best possible strategy for winning your child custody hearing.

Divorce is one of the toughest things to go through, and it is even tougher when kids are thrown into the mix. Working out visitation schedules, etc can be exhausting.

You need to know what your child custody rights are as a parent, whether you are a mother, a father, or even a grandparent.

How to get child custody is a question frequently asked by many people.

Hopefully the tools and resources I’ve given you on this website will help you find the answer.